Hello, my name is Kimmie Kay; I’m a Personal Holistic Healing Counselor/Coach.
Healing: let me clarify, I cannot heal anyone, nor do I make
any claims to have healed anyone. The
title simply is a guide to explain what I am—I am a holistic healer who guides
the human race to a better place.
Guidance is done through meditation, prayer, journeying,
intuition, and other spiritual means.
Magical Mondays
This is a 52 week journey, using a standard deck of cards (go
to www.KimmieKay.com to read about the deck of cards). We are on Week 12. I’d like you all to congratulate yourselves
for being here, for taking the time for YOU.
Just 30 minutes to improve your life a little at a time each week. Grateful for you all!
“Working Together as a group is
where the ‘real’ power is.”
Begin:
December 18, 2017,
The card to carry with you with week is the 10 of Spades,
Week 12 the letter on the front is “V”. Are you a Victim or a Victor?
We are going to use the 10 of spades like shovels tonight
and we are going to let go of 10 Victim actions that we all do at some point in
our day. There are some people that play
the victim so well, they carry their own chalk!
Before we do that, I’m going to share three heroes’
journeys:
June Meyer, my mom. She was on complete life support 22 years
ago and was not expected to live. The family gathered in the hospital ‘family
room’ while they took her off the machines.
Over four hours passed and our Dad emerged and said, “She’s going to
make it.” She was diagnosed with COPD (chronic obstructive pulmonary disease) a
level worse than emphysema. At that
time, the longest survivor of COPD was eight (8) years; they gave mom two (2)
years to live and told her she’d be like everyone else and would be spending
the last two years of her life in and out of the hospital.
The diagnoses is determined by the percentage of lung capacity a patient has, she had approximately 15% left. Her decision, “They don’t know what they’re talking about, (middle finger in the air) I DO NOT have COPD!” She chose to be a victor and not a victim of the doctor’s prediction, she fully believed they made a wrong diagnoses. For years I watched the machines go off at the doctors, them telling her, “June, we don’t know how to help you, there is nothing more we can do for you, it doesn’t make sense why the disease is not progressing, keep doing what you’re doing.” And, she did! Until the day she passed, she denied the doctor’s death sentence, and said, she Did Not have COPD, and if you asked her about it, she’d get mad!
She went back to the hospital four times; twice for COPD, once to screw back together her broken hip, and once to have her gallbladder removed. The fifth time to the hospital was her last, December 14th, 2012—seventeen (17) years later. She chose VICTORY.
The diagnoses is determined by the percentage of lung capacity a patient has, she had approximately 15% left. Her decision, “They don’t know what they’re talking about, (middle finger in the air) I DO NOT have COPD!” She chose to be a victor and not a victim of the doctor’s prediction, she fully believed they made a wrong diagnoses. For years I watched the machines go off at the doctors, them telling her, “June, we don’t know how to help you, there is nothing more we can do for you, it doesn’t make sense why the disease is not progressing, keep doing what you’re doing.” And, she did! Until the day she passed, she denied the doctor’s death sentence, and said, she Did Not have COPD, and if you asked her about it, she’d get mad!
She went back to the hospital four times; twice for COPD, once to screw back together her broken hip, and once to have her gallbladder removed. The fifth time to the hospital was her last, December 14th, 2012—seventeen (17) years later. She chose VICTORY.
John Meyer, my brother, was diagnosed with ALS, Lou Gehrig’s
Disease, almost nine (9) years ago. They gave him five (5) years to live. His disease in the beginning progressed
rapidly; he believed he would be gone in less than five (5) years. They even put in a feeding tube a few years
in to prepare for the end. Around the
five year mark, he hadn’t used the feeding tube, didn’t need to, and changed
his attitude with the help of a younger man, Tommy, who was also given the ALS
card many years prior and was living a dependant life style.
Tommy said, “If you don’t stop feeling sorry
for yourself, I will not be your friend anymore. Do you realize how lucky we are? We ‘lived’ a crazy life of adrenaline junkies
and were there for everyone else. Now,
we are dependent on everyone else to take care of us. In the same lifetime! How many people get to experience that?” Tommy passed this year, 2017, his spirit
never gave up, his body did. John now
lives his life content and the disease has slowed dramatically. He has chosen victory over being a victim!
Stephanie Johnson-Lewis, my niece. She was diagnosed with
cancer on her tongue, a rare disease with a bleak outcome. Please visit her website, www.StephanieStrong.com. She is amazingly strong and it will bring you
to tears and give you strength at the same time. Victory!
let’s breath…..
Breathing
Exercise before lesson (this method is the fastest way to become calm and
centered): IN for count of 7, HOLD for
count of 7, OUT for count of 7, HOLD for count of 7. Repeat 3 x’s
Become more aware of the quality of your thinking.
Be aware of your thoughts, and that you are not Falling for your Victim Story! Letting go of the old beliefs, and becoming
Here we go:
Woe is me, Feeling sorry for yourself, Negative self talk, Someone took
my parking place, I don’t have enough __________(money, time), Sad face
(_____________) story of my life, FML this happens to me all the time….
(Week 12, all about the Meditation/Journey to letting
go of patterns we fall into as the victim’s, took 10 shovels shaped like spades
and buried them, then turned them into amazing rainbow sparkles to simulate
‘fireworks’ and victory)
In
closing:
Reminder,
to take your 10 of Spades
Remember
every day is a new beginning, have a Magical Week!
Please
Visit: www.KimmieKay.com for the script, forward it to anyone you think might like to
be a part of Magical Mondays. (Or maybe they just need that one script to help
them, you decide.)
See
you next Monday, ‘same time same rainbow channel’
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